Real talk: The “O Method” is a term TikTok made famous in recent years. It is sex magic for modern days and the social media witch. Being that both have the same results, it’s safe to say that the “O Method” (”O” being short for orgasms) is a sure-fire way to excite the body and to get what you want in the process. I’m taking long-term plans, ideas, and objectives. Let your orgasms guide you towards your purpose.
Contrary to popular belief, sex magic has been around for centuries. Some might argue that it has been prominent since the beginning of time. The ritual includes pleasuring oneself or a partner with the anticipation of creating an orgasm that releases our innermost visions. Many magical practitioners believe that there are mystical properties that can guide us toward attaining our hopes, dreams, and desires in sexual emissions. If we add manifestation to the mix, you can use the method to achieve your passions IRL.
Since the sacral chakra is the part of the body associated with sex, this act heightens the energy there, allowing us to make moves that fuel our creativity and aspirations. The point of sex magic is to connect the body, mind, and spirit with your intentions and goals. The result is goodness between the two to ensure you take moves to make it happen.
How To Use The ‘O-Method’ To Manifest Desires
Meditate
Before doing any kind of magical work, you need to connect with the universe. You can do so by meditating or relaxing your body through breathwork. Think of something that will calm your vessel and allow you to feel as though you are in a calmer state. It’s vital to have peace of mind to understand what your intentions are. You might get confused about what you want, which is why it’s essential to get your body, mind, spirit, and heart in alignment with each other. Thinking clearly can guide you towards what you truly desire to bring to fruition.
Create your own spell
You might be wondering what the intention I want to set is. Here’s the fun part — it is anything you want. It ranges from a raise at work, a new relationship, or plans to have ice cream. Yes, you can dream up whatever you want and make it a reality. Once you have made a clear intention, you can write it on a piece of wish or parchment paper with a pencil. The wording is everything, so state, “I want x, y, or z.” Start small with one intention. When you finish writing it out, cross out the vowels and rewrite the intention without the vowels on the same paper. Doing so creates your enchantment. Place the paper near you because you’ll use it later.
Set the atmosphere
Don’t get prudish now. Embrace your fabulousness and fantasies. Create a sensual ambiance. If you want to make a playlist on Spotify, wear lingerie, light candles (be careful and make sure you’re following fire safety protocol), and glam up with makeup or perfume — go for it! Set the room up for pleasure. Whether you’re doing this ritual solo, with a partner or more, ensure that you feel like the sexiest bitch there. This is your time to shine and sparkle, so do whatever makes you happy. Yes, this means picking out the sex toys, lube, or anal beads that excite you.
Now, visualize your intentions
When you are ready, start massaging your body. Masturbation or sex with another should be done mindfully. Look at your letter of intention and slowly chant the words. If you’re shy, you don’t have to speak and can visualize your aspirations. You can envision yourself attaining your goals as you please yourself.
Reach the climax of your dreams and release your manifestation into the world
As you begin to climax, recite or envision your intentions. The reason is that you want to associate fabulous sentiments with your hopes. Also, orgasms are moments that are exceptionally energetically powerful. It not only rocks your world, but the release creates magical beings that are vibrant. Some choose to drink their secretions, others like to rub them on their bodies, and people want to clean up after. You can decide how you wish to proceed. Do what feels right.
Sex Magic Best Practices
Follow the lunar phases of the Moon for the best time to practice sex magic. New and Full Moons are the most potent time to manifest. New Moons focus on what you want to bring in, while Full Moons are a time of connection and letting go. If you want to bring something into your life, opt for the New Moon. Conversely, liberating oneself from the past and changing gears is ideal for the Full Moon.
Use color magic to enhance the vibes. Wear or decorate the room with orange for creativity, yellow for positivity, red for adoration, pink for self-love, white for purification, blue for serenity, purple for intuition, black for protection, green for inciting change, or brown for comfort. You can even spark candles in these colors, too.
Feel free. Don’t worry about outside noise or stressors. Be in the moment.
