Everyone and their mother knows the saga of how Ariana Grande fell for Ethan Slater (SpongeBob) after splitting from her ex-husband, Dalton Gomez. But her other Wicked co-star and bestie, Cynthia Erivo, has a more mysterious dating life. Cynthia’s been linked to a few people in and out of the entertainment industry, but she doesn’t often speak publicly about her relationships. However, the Color Purple star did recently come out as bi and open up about her queerness and coming out journey. Here’s everything to know about Cynthia Erivo’s dating history, including her past relationships and what she’s shared about her queer identity.

Cynthia Erivo Dating History: Partners, Exes

Cynthia Erivo Identified As Queer Later In Life

Cynthia keeps her romantic relationships private because she already shares so much of her life with the world. “I’m very tight-lipped with my relationships, ’cause I don’t think that my relationship is for anyone else but for me,” she explained during a recent Vanity Fair interview. “I spend so much of my life sharing everything — whether it’s my work or my soul or my life in speeches. I think I give enough of myself that I’m allowed to keep something for me.”

However, the actress and singer does feel comfortable speaking about her queer identity. She noted, “It’s enough for people to know that I’m a queer person who could have relationships with men or women or neither.” Cynthia came out as bisexual in an August 2022 British Vogue Pride issue.

When the Wicked star appeared on The Kelly Clarkson Show in September 2022, she opened up about coming out later in life. “I don’t think I had the language to even know what was going on,” Cynthia reflected on the show. “It’s come much later to me now and it’s wonderful to just be me, really. I think it’s sort of made space creatively to just sort of let go of whatever I was hiding.”

Cynthia Erivo’s Relationships

Cynthia’s been linked to actress and producer Lena Waithe, British singer and actor Dean John-Wilson, and Mario Martinez, who’s not in the entertainment industry.

While speaking with Vanity Fair in November 2019, the performer opened up about her relationship with Mario. “He chased me,” she revealed at the time. Apparently, they frequently saw each other and he would make moves even though he knew she was still dating Dean. Cynthia recalled, “Then the last time, I was not with my ex anymore — except this time he did not ask. He just walked up to me and gave me a kiss.” Goddamn. At the time of the interview, Cynthia and Mario had been together for two years.

In June 2022, Cynthia and Lena were spotted holding hands at the Alvin Ailey Spirit Gala in June 2022 following years of dating rumors, but they never confirmed their relationship. Cynthia’s current relationship status is unclear… but it seems like she and Ariana are platonic soulmates. I need Wicked NOW.