Even if you haven’t watched Challengers yet, the scene in the trailer where they all kiss still did a little something to you, didn’t it? And don’t you just love that it was a scene with two guys and one girl instead of the usual two-girls-one-guy? I don’t know about you, but something about a threesome featuring two men is so exciting — and it’s always been a big fantasy of mine. I’m not sure if it’s a submissive thing or even a dominant thing (because both can definitely apply), but something about having two men take care of me seems like an actual dream come true.
“For many women, having the attention of two men is part of the appeal so a female-male-male threesome is their ideal combination,” Jaimee Bell, sex expert at Bloom Stories tells Betches. So if you’ve been thinking about this for a while, you’re definitely not alone. But even if you’ve been dying to get Eiffel-Towered like me, it’s best to not go into a threesome blindly (ironically though, blindfolds are encouraged). You need a game plan and maybe even a little bit of wine.
Here are a few tips for two-guys-one-girl threesomes. Enjoy living out my dream!
Get In The Mood
“In the lead-up to your threesome, immerse yourself in lots of female-centric, sex-positive threesome content,” Bell says. “Erotica — audio or written — is great because it allows you to really put yourself at the center of the experience. It will also provide helpful tips and great inspiration for positions.” Plus, you’re going to want to be super horny before a threesome.
Set some ground rules.
Is anything off limits? What is aftercare going to look like? Whatever will make all three of you feel as comfortable as possible is important. Maybe try using a shared Google Doc to write the rules down.
Look into sex positions beforehand.
Threesomes can be super hot — but they can also be really awkward. You don’t need to have a game plan for every single position you want to use, but it’s good to do a little research and know what positions might work. Otherwise, not knowing what to do with two penises can feel a little daunting. Of course, there’s the Eiffel Tower like I mentioned, but there’s also the Doggy Blowjob and the Face Fuck.
If one of them is your boyfriend, make sure the other is a stranger.
Listen, I don’t care how cool your partner is — it’s just easier to have a trusted stranger or just not a very-close-friend in your relationship — especially if you were planning on staying friends with this person afterwards.
Make sure they’re not related.
Just trust me on this one.
Be the boss.
Bossing around two men and telling them where to touch and kiss you? *Chef’s kiss*
Or don’t.
But you can always just lay back and let things happen.
Lube, lube, and more lube.
Listen if there are going to be two penises going in and out of you, you need to make sure you have a big tube of lube ready to go at all times.
You don’t need to use every hole.
If you’ve watched threesome porn you probably think that anal needs to be involved in every 2-guy-1-girl situation, but that’s not the case. If you’re only comfortable using your mouth and vagina then that’s all you need to use.
Make sure everyone feels involved.
Dividing up your attention between two people during sex can feel like a sport. “The reality is that there might be times when one person feels left out,” Bell says. Just remember to share the wealth and make everyone feel as welcome as possible!
Get comfortable first.
Do whatever you need to do solo before you let the boys in (literally). Draw yourself up a nice bath, do a skincare routine, and do whatever makes you feel like a sex goddess, because hello — you are.
