Valentine’s Day is basically Halloween for people who like heart-shaped accessories, and honestly, the pressure to put together the perfect outfit can feel like a lot. Are you supposed to dress like you walked out of a Bridgerton ball? Is it a crime to wear black? Should you lean into the theme and look like a literal conversation heart? The options are endless, and frankly, I’m exhausted just thinking about it.
But here’s the thing: there’s no singular way to dress for Valentine’s Day. Just because it’s a holiday doesn’t mean you have to sacrifice your personal style in the name of romance. Whether your vibe is more romantic rocker or postpartum MILF (yes, it’s a thing — think, “I just had a baby, but I’m still the hottest person in this room”), there’s a Valentine’s Day look for you.
So, if you’re stressing about what to wear for your date or girls’ night, don’t worry — I’ve got you covered.
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Easy Sexy Glam
If the thought of trying to be sexy feels overwhelming to you, take a deep breath. You can’t go wrong with a simple black dress and some black pumps. It’s easy, it’s hot, and it’ll look like you’re effortlessly sexy (emphasis on the “effortless”).
Get the look:
1.) Superdown Mini Dress, $88
2.) Passion Stiletto Pumps, $43
3.) Joy Shoulder Bag, $89
4.) Hanes Women’s Silk Reflections Control Top Pantyhose, $11
Boho Chic
If you want your Valentine’s Day fit to look like you just hopped off the commune, you can still give cupid without wearing and red or pink. Layer a faux fur vest over a buttoned white dress with some signature suede boots to scream “day of love.”
Get the look:
1.) Free People Sachi Mini Dress, $118
2.) Faux Fur Vest, $49
2.) Dolce Vita Gyra Brown Suede Boots, $160
3.) Statement Disc Choker Necklace, $48
Romantic Rocker
Maybe soft and sweet isn’t your vibe. If you’re more into the romantic rocker look, you can still look sexy and sultry without feeling like a delicate little flower. Mixing lace with dark colors and of course, incorporating some leather and studs can help you find the perfect balance between hot and intimidating. Ah, the sweet spot.
Get the look:
1.) Vegan Leather 90s Relaxed Pant, $88
2.) Liquid Shine Draped Top, $40
3.) Steve Madden Women’s Dusty Ankle Boot, $130
4.) Fluffy Faux Fur Coat, $53
Postpartum MILF
Not quite feeling like yourself just yet? Well, who said that has to stop you from being a total MILF on VDay? A wrap dress is the perfect way to feel sexy while still covering up if you’re not feeling the whole “less is more” look this year. Plus, let’s safe the huge pumps for when you’re feeling fully healed — a kitten heel will do just fine.
Get the look:
1.) Chelsea28 Ruffle Wrap Maxi Dress, $84
2.) Sam Edelman Bianka Slingback Pump, $77
3.) Puffy Charlotte Pearl Drop Earring, $98
4.) MAC Cremesheen Brave Red Lipstick, $25
Office Siren Core
Remember all those “office siren” outfits you actually shouldn’t have been wearing to the office? Well, now’s your time to shine. A sexy corset look or blazer dress is the best way to let your date know you mean business this Valentine’s Day.
Get the look:
1.) Lovers and Friends Blazer Dress, $248
2.) ASOS Thigh High Boots, $56
3.) Coach Tabby Shoulder Bag, $270
4.) Backseam Sheer Rip-Resist Thigh Highs, $35
Elegant Date Night
If you’re looking to go all out this VDay, a long, sexy black dress is the way to go. Pair it with some silver heels and a purse to match and you’ll definitely be stopping everyone‘s dates in their tracks.
Get the look:
1.) ASOS Asymmetric Maxi Dress With Draped Scarf, $45
2.) Sam Edelman Slingback Pumps, $105
3.) Hobo Tote Handbag, $25
