Starting off season 7 of RHOM by immediately diving headfirst into the Alexia Nepola and Todd divorce drama? Miami is never beating the spiciest Housewives franchise allegations, and I’m so grateful for that. Now that Bro is back on our screens, we’re finally getting answers about WTF really went down between her and her “Gringo” since season 6, and the answer already appears to be quite a lot.
Much like another short king named Todd, who latched himself onto a successful queen on this network, something about Alexia’s little guy has made my spidey senses tingle. He treats her well, but is he throwing too much money at their problems? He’s serious about family, but does he know the boundary between being a supportive stepfather and a drill sergeant to Frankie and Peter? Does Todd love Alexia as purely as Miami’s blonde Barbie loves him? I’m searching for the answers while investigating Alexia and Todd’s breakup timeline.
When did Todd and Alexia break up?
On April 15, 2024, Todd filed for divorce after only two years of marriage, and Alexia responded to the news publicly. She shared she was “shocked and heartbroken” that “Todd [had] chosen to dissolve” the marriage. On season 7 of RHOM, Alexia explains why she was so shook, and the timeline is frying me.
On Friday, April 5, Todd had taken Alexia out to a special fancy dinner, told her he loved her “so much,” and followed it all up with spicy sex. On Saturday, April 6 (meaning THE VERY NEXT DAY), Todd had secretly removed his things when she was out of the house hanging with Peter without her knowledge. Alexia got home and found “everything was missing” that belonged to Todd and his daughter — down to the shampoo. The move to a new apartment was in the works for a month. Alexia was especially upset Todd “did this in front of [her] son,” not giving “a shit about Frankie.”
Why did Todd divorce Alexia?
“There was no fight, there was like no nothing,” Alexia told her friends at a sit-down about the surprise divorce. She confirmed to her bestie Lisa a divorce hadn’t been discussed, so why Todd felt leaving her would make everyone happy is very confusing… On season 6, Alexia’s forever frenemy Adriana accused the couple of having secret financial problems driving them apart, and the audience saw a troubling blended family dynamic on screen, too. Alexia shut down Adriana’s claims at the reunion, calling Adriana jealous of “everything [Alexia] has.”
How did Alexia find out Todd filed for divorce?
Alexia’s attorney called her to let her know since Alexia was unaware Todd was ending things permanently, as she’d been talking to her hubby the whole week prior about trying to work things out in therapy.
When did Alexia and Todd’s divorce become official?
Alexia and Todd’s divorce was finalized on March 17, 2025, about one year after the unexpected announcement. Alexia told People the settlement, filed “freely and voluntarily with the assistance and advice of counsel,” was “amicable.” Then Alexia’s statement casually added that though their marriage had ended, their “relationship has not, ” and they were looking forward to their “next chapter” with “the understanding, love, and support from our family, friends, and fans.” Broooo??? The drama of it all!
When did Alexia and Todd get back together?
Five months after the divorce was announced, in September 2024, Alexia and Todd were spotted on vacation together in Palm Beach, Florida. Since then, Alexia has made it obvious they are far from over, even telling the fans at Fan Fest in November 2024 that she still considered herself married and was wearing her ring.
Are Alexia and Todd still together?
Yes, Alexia said in interviews at the Miami premiere in June 2025 that she and Todd are “together, it’s no secret” because they “love each other and are working on it.” She continued that they are “very happy and are in a good place” and didn’t shut down the idea of getting remarried again. Okay, yes, I’m very sat for season 7.
