When you eventually start dating again after a breakup, it almost feels like going back to visit your college town after you graduated. This is especially true if you’re coming out of a long term relationship. Everything feels vaguely familiar but the people have all changed, and there’s usually more technology involved. As much as you might have believed you would never date anyone ever again after things ended, you eventually get over that and start from the beginning. And when you do, here’s what goes through your mind.