Congratulations, you made it well into a mature adult relationship. You made it through your birthdays, the holidays, and maybe even a vacation or two. But now you find yourself wondering if you even want to be here at all. Why is staying in a relationship so much work? You long for the fifties when they just called it “going steady” and you were set for life. But in the fifties they also called minorities by some unacceptable names, so eyes on the future, betch. If you’re feeling stuck in a relationship, chances are you’re ready to move on. Here are some signs that might be the case.