Over the past couple years, Khloé and Lamar have given Scott and Kourtney a real run for the title of most tumultuous Kardashian couple, and now the plot has thickened even more. Over the weekend, Khloé posted a quote on Instagram with literally a Harry Potter book-length caption about how we can’t take responsibility for other people’s problems.
Khloé has been at Lamar’s side ever since he overdosed in October, which was when their pending divorce was called off indefinitely. There were rumors that they were serious about getting back together, but no one really knew how real the relationship was. Now, it seems like things might finally be coming to an end. Lamar was recently seen at a bar, which is probably not the best place for someone who literally overdosed six months ago. Now, with Khloé’s hot mess of an instagram caption, it seems like this really might be the case. Khloé’s talk show also got canceled last week, so maybe she’s decided it’s time to get rid of lots of things in her life. Best of luck to both of these crazy assholes, can’t wait to see it all on tv in six months.
“Letting go doesn’t mean that you don’t care about someone anymore. It’s just realizing that the only person you really have control over is yourself.” Letting go with love takes great strength. We have to learn to stop taking on peoples problems as if they are our own. Loving people does not mean we have to carry their burdens and confusions on our back. Sadly, You can only express your opinion on a situation. You can’t want their life more than they do. This is in fact their life to figure out on their own and in their own time. I do believe in timing. I do believe timing is everything. You forcing your beliefs and dreams down ones throat is only going to cause resentment and possibly manifest deeper issues. Possibly to the point of no return. “People say time heals all wounds… I say time heals wounds but scars are left to remind you what you have been through and what you survived.” Stop shattering your own heart by trying to make a relationship (friend, family, partner) work that clearly isn’t meant to work. We have to stop trying to repaint people’s colors. We have to learn to believe the love we AREN’T given. You can’t love someone into loving you. (God I wish it were that easy) You can’t force someone to be loyal, kind, understanding. You can’t force someone to be the person you need them to be. Even if it’s for their own good!! Sometimes the person you want most is the person you’re best without. You have to understand… some things ARE supposed to happen in your life, but they just are NOT meant to be. Damn… It took me so many years to understand that. Don’t lose yourself by trying to fix what’s meant to stay broken. God always has a plan even if we can’t understand it (or don’t want to understand it) Even in the darkest of places… Our Lord sees His vision. We might not understand it at the moment but I promise you, your future will always bring understanding and clarity of why things didn’t work out. Don’t put your happiness on hold for someone (family, friend, partner) who isn’t holding on to you. “A Girl once told me… Be careful when trying to fix a broken person. For you may cut yourself on their shattered pieces.”