I’ve recently started dating a guy who is a total “guy”. Classic 20-something in every way from his bachelor pad where they don’t own toilet paper to his facial hair he thinks he’s rocking. But there’s little things about his appearance that I can’t stand! Don’t get me wrong, he’s a great guy and I’ve really been enjoying dating him but I can’t stop thinking about how badly I want to pluck those straggling eyebrow hairs!
I plan to continue dating him but when can I start to request little appearance preferences? I don’t want to change him, I just want to know when I can say “hey babe, untuck those jeans from your boots you look ridiculous”?! I have all intentions of continuing to date him with or without these things I’ve mentioned changing, I would just love to be able to be honest about my opinion on them!
Please take like five xanaxes and then reevaluate your life choices. This is really….not a big deal at all. It’s not even a small deal. It’s like, not even a deal. You’re literally proposing gently suggested the guy you’re dating pay more attention to his grooming habits. What exactly is the problem here? Guys are oblivious, you’ll be fine, if anything you may have to “nicely” bring it up a few times before he even gets what’s going on. If you are overthinking something this small to the point that you emailed our marketing department about it, I’m amazed how you get anything done in life.
Enjoy the unibrow,