Do you freak out when someone asks you where you see yourself in 5 years? Because um, you literally have no idea? So you’re not a commitment oriented person. That’s fine. When it comes to relationships though, things get a little tricky. Sure, maybe you’re in love with someone, but something’s still keeping you from getting serious. If you’re wondering whether it’s him or you that’s holding back – here’s a few signs it might be you.